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Tuesday, November 7, 2017

Never Judge Me. Ever.

  No.. I shouldn't have to walk a mile in your shoes before judging you, or making light of a topic that for you is super heavy. That's insane, dummy. I will not warp backwards in time, to be molested, or shoot up a bunch of drugs, or overcome whatever obstacles that my firsthand knowledge of would finally permit me the right to think things about you. That's not ok. I'm just going to think things anyway. Everybody thinks things. And not just about you. Everyone thinks about everyone and everything, all the time. It's unfair. I know. Unfortunately, you might have to choose between accepting it, or making it your life's mission to alter the human brain.
I'm not going to hurt you. If you have a dark past, statistically you're more likely to hurt me. I'm sure that you're a better person now, but I have to look out for number one. I will judge you, and decide not to be your best friend, in a heartbeat.
Maybe you're not so bad, maybe you're just sad. Maybe you're suicidal, and all you need is for someone to reach out, get to know the real you, and just be there to help talk through some issues. Nope. It is not a healthy choice to develope a relationship of any sort with a person who will immediately hold anyone responsible for their mortality. You might not agree that this is a fair prediction of your behavior. Of course you would never assign someone to your well being, but every time you imply that you desperately need someone to care, that's exactly what you're saying that you'll do. And doing so is a form of abuse. You must first love yourself before being capable of loving others, jerk.
If I see you on the street, and you appear sketchy to me, it's fine if I keep a distance. There's absolutely no reason to approach a stranger in effort to uncover the magnitude of magnanimous character hidden beneath their steriotypically serial killer surface other than to prove myself wrong. I'm busy, and I don't care to take that much interest. I'd rather be mistaken about how dangerous you are, than an idiot about how safe I am. If given the power, would I have you hanged? No way, I'm not evil. I'm just crossing the street. A lady's got to go with her gut in this world, especially at night.

I judge, and religiously misjudge for the sake of humor. Is that mean? Are nice jokes the best jokes? Was a close member of your family murdered by insensitivity, or was it ill informed laughter that drove them over the edge?
When you compare words to bullets, you trivialize everything that hard working veterans have sacrificed for this country. You're judging bullets all wrong.
I wasn't offensive before you became offended, and I don't appreciate it. Words like retard, Voldemort, and so on, are given their power by you, not me. Is making a big deal always the right thing to do? Is freaking out good for you? Why are you doing this to yourself? Let it go, bro.

Are you judging me yet? Do you have any idea what I've been through? Do you know what would happen if you walked a mile in my shoes? You'd look gay, that's what.
Please like and share if you don't find my opinions to be one hundred percent factually accurate. Ignore afterwards.
..And point to the doll where they judged you.